Friday, November 12, 2010


marriage is not always about finding your soulmate

its about 'the moment'

by the time you think you were ready (financially, mentally, etc) to do that process

whoever he/she thats beside you will be 'the one'

*just a thought... cz I haven't married yet :)

Monday, October 25, 2010


Yay its me! hehehe

Thats the picture of my desk at ExsaMap where I spent the last 2 years workin' there :D
Many great things happens during that moment.
I've met lots of great people, friends and colleague.
Learn many things especially about IT (one thing that I do really hate during college XD)

After leaving them for about 7 months..  I do miss the moment when I was there..

Here's the picture of DBA & Data Prep team :)

from left to right: 
up: Dheriyanto, Rguntur, Airawan, Mbekti, Gputra, Eprasetiyo
down: Vayuningtyas (me), Swahyuni, Selsyawitri

The only thing that remains is not only our photographs but also our lasting friendship guys ^_^

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Closing Cycles

Paulo Coelho
The famous Brazilian novelist

I've known him from his book called

The Alchemist

a very recommended book! :)

This is one of his writing which is my favorite :)

One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.
Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters – whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.
Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents’ house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden? You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened.
You can tell yourself you won’t take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that. But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister. Everyone is finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.
Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away.
That is why it is so important (however painful it may be!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home.
Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts – and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them.
Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood.
Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.
Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the “ideal moment.”
Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back. Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person – nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.
Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life.
Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust.
Stop being who you were, and change into who you are.

Friday, October 22, 2010

My Crochet

A friend of mine ask what's your 2010 resolution?
I dont know.. I never really made any resolution hehe
But this year I'd like to have one... that's good at CROCHETTING :)

Here's some pics of what I've made during the first 3 month

I've made them as a resign gift for my fellow co-worker

A bandana for mba Icha

glass based
tatakan gelas maksudnya :D

A gift for a friend

Puchil with his flower crochet

little tulips as a keychain

baby shoes


Friday, July 23, 2010






Mau eksis di blog juga nih :)